yesterday i fall asleep coz too tired la.so no write dao blog...my friend jimmy,ee pei,hui ling,yi song,khai sherng,ah pu and zhi yong together go neway to celebrate my birthday..i think i am the most high in that room d..haha lastly they want sing birthday so de...but u noe la...boy ma...will pai seh de ma...xD so i ask them dun want sing for me better..haha after i reach home..my family bring me go v garden for dinner...yu chi le..yummy..haha still got 1 more girl...feel so cute lo..lolx ask her for the celebration but she say no celebration...so cold lolx..1 more is say now busy...late bit only bu chang back lo..zz also dunno is real or fact...haha
yesterday neway..today neway..friday still want neway..lolx...i scare my voice will change lo..haha dao chi wei zhi!! !! ! !
Tuesday, September 29, 2009
Monday, September 28, 2009
Thursday, September 24, 2009
moody
pei sry becoz my family problem..my dad friend as treat my dad as a bro,she scold my sis and my bro..he almost cry becoz of my parent situation..he teach me many thing..he is a good leader..my family really getting much of problem...feel so pek cek..down...moody..
Monday, September 14, 2009
like to share this with u all
What I find important in a relationship
TRUST is a very important factor for all relationships. When trust is broken, it is the end of the relationship. Lack of trust leads to suspicion, suspicion generates anger, anger causes enmity and enmity may result in separation. NO POINTING FINGERS A man asked his father-in-law, "Many people praised you for a successful marriage. Could you please share with me your secret?" The father-in-law answered in a smile, "Never criticize your wife for her shortcomings or when she does something wrong. Always bear in mind that because of her shortcomings and weaknesses, she could not find a better husband than you." We all look forward to being loved and respected. Many people are afraid of losing face. Generally, when a person makes a mistake, he would look around to find a scapegoat to point the finger at. This is the start of a war. We should always remember that when we point one finger at a person, the other four fingers are pointing at ourselves. If we forgive the others, others will ignore our mistake too. CREATING PERFECT RELATIONSHIPS? A person visited the government matchmaker for marriage, SDU, and requested "I am looking for a spouse. Please help me to find a suitable one." The SDU officer said, "Your requirements, please." "Oh, good looking, polite, humorous , sporty, knowledgeable, good in singing and dancing. Willing to accompany me the whole day at home during my leisure hour, if I don't go out. Telling me interesting stories when I need companion for conversation and be silent when I want to rest." The officer listened carefully and replied, "I understand you need television." There is a saying that a perfect match can only be found between a blind wife and a deaf husband ,because the blind wife cannot see the faults of the husband and the deaf husband cannot hear the nagging of the wife. Many couples are blind and deaf at the courting stage and dream of perpetual perfect relationship. Unfortunately, when the excitement of love wears off, they wake up and discover that marriage is not a bed of roses. The nightmare begins. NO OVERPOWERING Many relationships fail because one party tries to overpower another,or demands too much. People in love tend to think that love will conquer all and their spouses will change the bad habits after marriage. Actually, this is not the case. There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that "It is easier to reshape a mountain or a river than a person's character." It is not easy to change. Thus, having high expectation on changing the spouse character will cause disappointment and unpleasantness. It would be less painful to change ourselves and lower our expectations.. RIGHT SPEECH There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that "A speech will either prosper or ruin a nation." Many relationships break off because of wrong speech. When a couple is too close with each other,we always forget mutual respect and courtesy. We may say anything without considering if it would hurt the other party. A friend and her millionaire husband visited their construction site. A worker who wore a helmet saw her and shouted,"Hi, Emily! Remember me? We used to date in the secondary school." On the way home, her millionaire husband teased her, "Luckily you married me.Otherwise you will be the wife of a construction worker." She answered ,"You should appreciate that you married me. Otherwise, he will be the millionaire and not you." Frequently exchanging these remarks plants the seed for a bad relationship. It's like a broken egg - cannot be reversed. PERSONAL PERCEPTION Different people have different perception. One man's meat could be another man's poison. A couple bought a donkey from the market. On the way home,a boy commented, "Very stupid. Why neither of them ride on the donkey?"Upon hearing that, the husband let the wife ride on the donkey. He walked besides them. Later, an old man saw it and commented, "The husband is the head of family. How can the wife ride on the donkey while the husband is on foot?" Hearing this, the wife quickly got down and let the husband ride on the donkey. Further on the way home, they met an old Lady. She commented, "How can the man ride on the donkey but let the wife walk. He is no gentleman." The husband thus quickly asked the wife to join him on the donkey. Then, they met a young man. He commented, "Poor donkey, how can you hold up the weight of two persons. They are cruel to you." Hearing that, the husband and wife immediately climbed down from the donkey and carried it on their shoulders. It seems to be the only choice left. Later, on a narrow bridge, the donkey was frightened and struggled. They lost their balance and fell into the river. You can never have everyone praise you, nor will everyone condemn you. Never in the past, not at present, and never will be in the future. Thus, do not be too bothered by others words if our conscience is clear.. BE PATIENT Think patiently the next time when someone steps on your feet or u wish to take revenge. Think first before u lose your patience with someone u love. Trucks can be repaired.. Broken bones & hurt feelings often can't. Too often we fail to recognize the difference between the person and the performance. We forget that forgiveness is greater than revenge. People make mistakes. We are allowed to make mistakes. But the actions we take while in a rage will haunt us forever.
TRUST is a very important factor for all relationships. When trust is broken, it is the end of the relationship. Lack of trust leads to suspicion, suspicion generates anger, anger causes enmity and enmity may result in separation. NO POINTING FINGERS A man asked his father-in-law, "Many people praised you for a successful marriage. Could you please share with me your secret?" The father-in-law answered in a smile, "Never criticize your wife for her shortcomings or when she does something wrong. Always bear in mind that because of her shortcomings and weaknesses, she could not find a better husband than you." We all look forward to being loved and respected. Many people are afraid of losing face. Generally, when a person makes a mistake, he would look around to find a scapegoat to point the finger at. This is the start of a war. We should always remember that when we point one finger at a person, the other four fingers are pointing at ourselves. If we forgive the others, others will ignore our mistake too. CREATING PERFECT RELATIONSHIPS? A person visited the government matchmaker for marriage, SDU, and requested "I am looking for a spouse. Please help me to find a suitable one." The SDU officer said, "Your requirements, please." "Oh, good looking, polite, humorous , sporty, knowledgeable, good in singing and dancing. Willing to accompany me the whole day at home during my leisure hour, if I don't go out. Telling me interesting stories when I need companion for conversation and be silent when I want to rest." The officer listened carefully and replied, "I understand you need television." There is a saying that a perfect match can only be found between a blind wife and a deaf husband ,because the blind wife cannot see the faults of the husband and the deaf husband cannot hear the nagging of the wife. Many couples are blind and deaf at the courting stage and dream of perpetual perfect relationship. Unfortunately, when the excitement of love wears off, they wake up and discover that marriage is not a bed of roses. The nightmare begins. NO OVERPOWERING Many relationships fail because one party tries to overpower another,or demands too much. People in love tend to think that love will conquer all and their spouses will change the bad habits after marriage. Actually, this is not the case. There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that "It is easier to reshape a mountain or a river than a person's character." It is not easy to change. Thus, having high expectation on changing the spouse character will cause disappointment and unpleasantness. It would be less painful to change ourselves and lower our expectations.. RIGHT SPEECH There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that "A speech will either prosper or ruin a nation." Many relationships break off because of wrong speech. When a couple is too close with each other,we always forget mutual respect and courtesy. We may say anything without considering if it would hurt the other party. A friend and her millionaire husband visited their construction site. A worker who wore a helmet saw her and shouted,"Hi, Emily! Remember me? We used to date in the secondary school." On the way home, her millionaire husband teased her, "Luckily you married me.Otherwise you will be the wife of a construction worker." She answered ,"You should appreciate that you married me. Otherwise, he will be the millionaire and not you." Frequently exchanging these remarks plants the seed for a bad relationship. It's like a broken egg - cannot be reversed. PERSONAL PERCEPTION Different people have different perception. One man's meat could be another man's poison. A couple bought a donkey from the market. On the way home,a boy commented, "Very stupid. Why neither of them ride on the donkey?"Upon hearing that, the husband let the wife ride on the donkey. He walked besides them. Later, an old man saw it and commented, "The husband is the head of family. How can the wife ride on the donkey while the husband is on foot?" Hearing this, the wife quickly got down and let the husband ride on the donkey. Further on the way home, they met an old Lady. She commented, "How can the man ride on the donkey but let the wife walk. He is no gentleman." The husband thus quickly asked the wife to join him on the donkey. Then, they met a young man. He commented, "Poor donkey, how can you hold up the weight of two persons. They are cruel to you." Hearing that, the husband and wife immediately climbed down from the donkey and carried it on their shoulders. It seems to be the only choice left. Later, on a narrow bridge, the donkey was frightened and struggled. They lost their balance and fell into the river. You can never have everyone praise you, nor will everyone condemn you. Never in the past, not at present, and never will be in the future. Thus, do not be too bothered by others words if our conscience is clear.. BE PATIENT Think patiently the next time when someone steps on your feet or u wish to take revenge. Think first before u lose your patience with someone u love. Trucks can be repaired.. Broken bones & hurt feelings often can't. Too often we fail to recognize the difference between the person and the performance. We forget that forgiveness is greater than revenge. People make mistakes. We are allowed to make mistakes. But the actions we take while in a rage will haunt us forever.
Saturday, September 12, 2009
Friend promise~
today feel very pek cek bcoz i dunno how to say my friend v hang change so much..mayb he feel i change so much also..he say til very rite..i am feel sorry to them(hang and yang) bcoz i also got treat them b4 like that also..when i still together with kx that time..we everyday nite also will go out lim teh and always chit chat til very late..no acc dao her.. to prevent kx angry me so i fix my lim teh time end at 10.30pm..and acc her til she sleep..they start saying me 'Beh Cham' slowly and slowly they less ask me out lim teh d..today i say with hang about 'Beh Cham'..give him say back me feel not very good..before he got mei ling we go where also no say anything and ON,but after he got mei ling i feel that he already give mei ling control his life..everytime i ask he out he also say dun want..yesterday my sasaran friend 'ee pei,hui ling,yi song,ah pu' say ok want lim teh d..but they scare me get block so ask hang together go..his answer dun want again..ee pei parent less give pei go out lim teh de lo..his dun want for him is nvm but for us...haix He is the one my friend that i can say my anything to him..everytime i got anything i also will find him..but this chance need mei ling give permision??too over d la..he boring can find mei ling but me boring also dunno want find who le..sy also less find me and reply me d..kx?Ws?mm..no dare la..got so many thing keeping in heart feel so pek cek le..but dunno why i feel this 3 ppl like hard to escape them la..alredy say dun want find them but my hand will auto press thier contact number and send out the message..haix..life so complifcated!!
Wednesday, September 9, 2009
Busy day~
today go cut hair..ntg special..after tuition just go lim teh with v hang ,v jiet and his friend..quiet funny..haha dunno when my life bcome so crazy last year...haiz
Tuesday, September 8, 2009
Monday, September 7, 2009
A PART OF THE TIME~
Sienz..want find a ppl chat with me also cant..If continue like that i think i will become crazy..but think back before got shin yin acc me,my life can say colourful also la..at least got she acc me every day..since a day...everything change..cold cry cool and less contact d..why everything i have also jz a part time only..Wish god will bless me t.t
Sunday, September 6, 2009
Feel LONELY liao!!
Aiyo..already say dun want to chase girl liao de lo..first first feel ntg but now feel LONELY d la..No SMS No CAll..REALLY LONELY LO haix..Hate This feel le..just like b4..Work sleep work sleep..Haiz..No Girl no life meh??!!
Friday, September 4, 2009
Bout Wei San..
I think i got 2 week no talk with wei san liao..dunno is my false or wat..i dun like her attitute (i mean she treat me)its like...cold or wat la..dunno how to explain..mayb she dun need me this friend also la..after trial exam..after we sit back our place..hard to imagine i will how to face her..Omg..HoW How HoW????!!!!!!!!!!!!!Or mayb she will say is me think too much..Lolx..everytime also say me think too much de la..her line short la..cant receive my line..
Life Boring~~
today after school jiu back home liao..first time so guai..after take my bath i just sit in front of my pc and watch movie..beside that..i also chating with apple la..sceret girl...Jz chat with her~!!haHa xD Trial Examing...but dunno why me dun have that exam mood le..But got 1 good news is i have quit online game Lo~~ HaHa >>>One Time<< by Justin i feel so nice..My dear blogger can check this out ..xD first time play blog..dunno want write wat...got any wrong pls msn me .. dryan_hwa@hotmail.com
Thursday, September 3, 2009
Newbie ~
Welcome..miracle i will start play blog..mayb is too much of thing in my heart i cant say out..til now i still cant find a friend that can let me say secret d..heard ppl say here is the best web and the best way to chat what inside my heart..Well,newbie here..got any mistake pls tell me ~~ xD
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